People want recognition, want to be the centre of attention, not everyone likes it, but they do. Those who don’t suppress it and don’t show any emotions when they are the centre of attention. They are known as critical people.
I am a critical person, hungry for attention, yet react wrongly to attention.
It is difficult to compliment critical people. They don’t thank you nor return you a compliment.
Critical people can spot a flaw from across the room, gives unsolicited advice, frequently complains and passes judgment, is negative and seems impossible to please.
“Critical people actually feel better around others who share the same negative attitudes.”
That’s true, I have a few critical friends and I feel more at home with them then my other goody good soul-ed friends(being critical).
I’ve found the truth, I am not a 100% introvert, I am 100% critical. That is what is wrong with me.
What causes a person to become critical:
- An unrenewed mind ; Put-downs, making-fun-of, criticism, sarcasm are the world’s ways of reacting to the faults of people
I bought the wrong book, just because it was a value buy ‘The Art of Getting Along With People’. RM12.90
I should buy some thing like ‘ Change your fucking critical self before you get fucked up real bad’
I need to change….so for the mean time, please tolerate me, I am trying to change.